I Work With Fabulous Singles

You’ve got a great life - good friends, a successful career, fun interests - but you’re single
and don’t want to be. You’re tired of being alone! The desire to share your life with
someone is so strong that sometimes it hurts.

You’re ready to do what it takes to find your person.

You want to be met on all levels: intellectually, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

You want someone who sees and loves all of you - the ways you shine and the ways you struggle.

You want a partner to share the journey of life with: the day-to-day and the big stuff.

You want a partner who will support you to fulfill your dreams and to share some of those dreams with.

When you have this, it will change your life.

You aren’t on your own anymore - you’re part of a team.

Now there’s someone who has your back.

A partner with a similar vision for their life and for the world, who will build towards this vision with you and support you to fulfill your own dreams.

Now, there’s someone to share the big stuff with for the rest of your lives.

i’m here to help you find it.

How We Find Your Fabulous Partner

Together, we take a closer look at what’s going on in your dating life (or help get your dating life going) and make a plan for your next steps. We reflect on what’s working and what isn’t and give you new tools to help you reach your goals.

I provide the moral support and expertise, you take action.

In Translate My Date, we use your current dating relationship as a test case to figure out what patterns might be going on in your dating life, and how to change them. Plus, we help things go better in your love life - immediately!

In my Intensive Coaching Packages, we take a deeper dive into what you want and make a plan for how to get you there. I support you every step of the way as you take action towards finding and building the relationship of your dreams.

I offer coaching and consulting by phone or video to clients all over the world.
I work with people of all genders and sexual orientations.


"I would not be where I am in my love life without you and the work we did together. I am a completely new person around intimacy and finally found someone who is exactly the kind of quality person that you encouraged me to look for! With your help, I am where I want to be - in a healthy, loving relationship."

- Shay (Married May 2016)
"Pella helped me identify what was really important to me in a relationship. She is insightful, wise and kind. Working with her is like meeting up with an old friend who just happens to be an expert on dating and relationships. She is non-judgmental, positive and cares about your love life (probably as much as you do)."

- Jill (in serious relationship since January 2016)
I'm really grateful for the work we did together. You started me down a path where I could imagine what I wanted in a relationship and the conditions necessary to get there. Of course, there was some luck involved in connecting with S -- and I feel very, very lucky -- but you also helped put me in a place where I could see and want and pursue the wonderful person that entered my life."

- David (in serious relationship)
“I am grateful to you for sharing your wisdom and kindness. I'm regularly amazed and impressed by your breadth and depth of insights, from the practical to the profound. Your expertise is truly valuable and I know I'm in good hands with you.”

- Zah (in new relationship)
Pella really understands her clients. She is smart, experienced and savvy and knows exactly the right questions to ask to lead you to find your answers within yourself. I would highly recommend Pella as a dating coach!”

- Allison (actively dating)
“I have worked with many coaches and therapists over the years and Pella truly stand outs. What makes her unique is her ability to show up in her fully authentic self. I have grown so much in my work with her. Pella has the ability to see the bigger picture in regards to my past and present which makes me believe in my future. She has helped me travel such a long distance in such a short time. I can’t recommend Pella's dating coaching highly enough!

- Daniel (actively dating)
"Pella implemented certain tools which allowed me to quickly clarify what I was looking for and she was a wonderful support to then keep me on track to honor those desires through our weekly meetings. Working closely with her has allowed me to stay true to myself and my desires. She is greatly empowering! She offers objective, loving observations and feedback that really helped to see my situation from another perspective. Don’t waste any more time with the wrong people - get Pella’s help immediately!"

- Charlotte (actively dating)